A Note to and old friend

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Hello Scott, this is Joe I guess you know that. In the 20 years I have known you, I had always had high hopes and I have told your sister the same, that with time, Scott will mature and his actions will change for the better. But seeing your recent actions and following years of your progress in maturing, which believe me I have been following, your business and you, I can see now, that you have not grown or matured into a better man. I know what your going to say now, fuck you. Right? Well lets talk about the truth for a minute. A persons actions display the character of individual they are or will become. In the 20 years of our acquaintance your actions have shown others and your family how very little you have matured. Like I should care really, yet weather I like it or not your still my brother-in-law. i had also hoped when your child was born we would see a great change in how you treated others.And that you may become more like your father we all can see that is not so.Who in my eyes was one of the best people I have ever known and did help me become a better person by his actions and acceptance of me.Some thing you nor your sister has been able to do.For that I am sorry.you had a perfect opertunity to show every one the grown and mature wise man you had become.I feel sorry for you Scott Dakota is a good boy just young and to try and blame him for your actions or the actions of others is wrong and an uneducated way of thinking.I wonder how or if the community around you is aware of the other side of Scott?Or have you done so well as to wear two faces,and your actions what or how you would have Riley to become think about that a second Scott,I only say this because I do have a past as well and my conscience is proof of that but at least I have tried to become a better person and man by my actions alone and my loyalty to my family after all this time you would think you could see that yet some times you can not see if you look through blind eyes dude.You do not have to like me I can live with that, but to blame others for your actions or hatred for some thing that is wrong is wrong any way you shake it.You do realize we all have opinions or thoughts and we do not have to like them but being able to except them with out taking it personally.it is a little thing I call wisdom,Well I wanted to voice my opinion and I have for what it is worth.Now on to the subject I would gratefully appreciate it if you would stop your actions you are imposing on my son and his friend.Some where inside you Scott there is a better man I believe that but by your actions it seems to me you just have not found you yet.So as everyone in the family is patient with you I ask you to be the same with your nephew and his friend.And remember family first no exceptions.That is if you except Dakota as family if not,That is truly your loss.