When your love has gone away

When your love has gone away

Love never dies

When your love leaves you behind

When a love one leaves, it places a deep hole right in front of our life. We cannot get through it, lest we fall again. But we can walk around it to move on. The memory of pain, sorrow, and joy stays and lingers on; circling and toying our thoughts in moments of loneliness. As Anais Nin say; “Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of withering, of tarnishing.”

When someone goes away from our life, we did not cause it. There was a decision somewhere when one or the other pursued. It was meant to be. Be glad that it happened, at least you got to know the person and you got to get in that close to know him well. Be glad for the memory. Keep that and hold it forever as your guiding light to shield you in the next event of your life.

Everyone goes through turmoil and pains, not once, but over and over again. Nothing in this world is permanent. The earth evolves and so must we. We keep on changing, nothing stays the same. It is sad and it is painful; just take a deep breathe and make the memory a part of you. Do things to make your days worthwhile, to increase you as a person and as a human being. Because memories are only elusions we build for us to hold on to things we never want to lose.

You are not alone. Things happen because they are meant to be; to give us more strength to carry on in life's adversities, to give us wisdom in knowing the difference to protect ourselves in our day to day existence, to understand more the beauty of God's love and yours, and to feel deeply the true meaning of life and living.

Allow time to heal you first before you embrace another love in your life. If that love comes back and it is the right moment in time, you may welcome it with open arms. We may find that love once more, with that same person, or another one, the one who treats us well.

I cannot say much but this; get in on a journey within yourself. When God is with us and within, all else are trivial. We do not have to expect others to give us love when we know that God is here and near. He is love and His love is more than enough. The faith we hold gives us the power to do everything when faced with anything in life. When we become one with ourselves, no one can hurt us anymore. The one who left us is the one who lose.

When something goes, it is only to make room for something new and better for you. Live to your highest awareness and enjoy your transformation. You are a child of the universe, like everyone else. You are perfect, whole and complete and one with the one who created you, if you wish to believe. Love yourself and more.

When we truly have so much love for ourselves, we then can give love to others. There is no other way around this. Love yourself first before you can love others.For how can you give love when it is not there within you?

You are perfect in your own way. Never allow others to hurt you. When we appreciate our own true gift, we stand alone strong; to face adversities, but most of all stand tall to be free of need of others. Only love attracts love.

As the bible say: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”